The other day we stayed at a hotel and watched Oprah’s show and I thought, “we are totally Oprah-worthy.” So just our luck, my love to swim, though I shouldn’t exert any wasted energy, proved beneficial. I met a man named Jason who’s cousin works for Gayle (Oprah’s homegirl). A girl can hope right?
Anyhow, North Carolina has treated us well. After we left Kenny and Trudi’s we crossed into North Carolina. Every state border makes my eyes sweat. We are that much closer, and so many said we couldn’t do it, HA! When we first started our Walk (seems like years ago at times), people would ask us if we are crazy. Now, it’s not even a question, rather it’s a statement of fact.
Picture this: 109 degrees, farmland, hungry, no water and not a gas station or business for seven miles. I wanted to cry. There were a few houses scattered thorughout the farmland but we had no choice but to knock to get some water. We knocked on the right door. After the Registers had confirmation that we were not Jehovah’s witnesses, they invited us in to cool down for a while. They fed us lunch, called the Whiteville paper, gave us money and hooked us up with a place to stay for the night. We thought we had found compassionate, giving farmers but they weren’t farmers at all; they sold billiard supplies online. I guess I wasn’t paying attention to a cardinal SAPA rule, never assume. Valerie, I don’t know if I will ever meet another soft-spoken, hospitable woman who’s clam chowder can ever compare. Spencer, you have a real talent, best of luck selling your ocarinas. And Carl, thanks again for re-evaluating us and allowing us to come in.
North Carolina-Please consider paving a straight country highway North/South. These country highways with all these twists and turns that lead to nothingness are killing me. How many items does one need to have on its shelf to call itself a store? In my opinion, at least more than 10 can goods, 2 types of candy bars and 2 different beverages. Tucked away on these so-called stores are men who sit around and chew and share bad jokes. At least it provides us with a different perspective. And that’s all I want to say about that.
In Whiteville, we had the opportunity to speak with some really good people. We spoke with Mr. Ray, the reporter, who was just as excited to talk to us as we were to him. A pentecostal Church treated us to dinner at a Mexican restaurant, where I was able to practice my diminishing espanol, thank you again P. daddy, Nathan, Charity and Friends. Special thanks to Charity for allowing us to crash at her place.
Remember that 109 degree weather I previously mentioned? Well, that was a heat wave with record-breaking temperatures that North Carolina was having. We needed an escape, so we went to NYC with Carrie Bradshaw and the rest of the sexy ladies. A super-awesome guy from the theater not only let us see Sex and The City for free but also supplied us with some complimentary popcorn. I really wish I could remember his name…
Days later we were interviewed at Subway and put in the Fayetteville Observer. Big thanks to Don for being our host that night.
Being in the paper was so rewarding. People continuously honked at us for encouragement, stopped us to chat on the side of the road, and practically threw money at us to pay for our lunch. Fayetteville, NC reserves a special place in my memory. The people who we met and spoke with there are the reasons why we continue walking. It also brought us to Ms. Green, the unforgettable Ms. Green. She tracked us down, called the newspaper and invited us to stay with her and her “Christian Ladies” for the night. Ms. Green ran a home for women who had found themselves homeless, for whatever reason. People say that we are brave for walking but they are brave for surviving. I couldn’t even imagine. I’m so grateful for that empowering experience and for Ms. Green trusting us and taking us in.
HAPPY FATHER’S DAY GREG!!! Greg, Kate’s Dad, came out to walk with us for the weekend. I never knew Dads like Eric Camden (Seventh Heaven) actually existed, but apparently they do. I cannot speak for Kate (although I often do and do it well) but that was a very precious time and it meant a great deal for him to travel all that way and spend all that money for just a weekend, but I cannot be more happy that he did. Thank you so much for lending me a temporary replacement to call my Dad.
We met Bill, Jerry and Josh at a little coffee shop ministry that we stopped at to eat. They overheard our mission and without even speaking with us beforehand, invited us into their home. My only regret was once again, not having more time to get to know them, especially after Bill dropped that biker bomb on us just before we departed.
Two walkers with huge green backpacks walk into a buffet and come out with a waitress who has invited them to stay at her place. The story seems to repeat itself time and time again, yet it never gets old for us. Thank you again Leslie, Deb and Theresa from Western Skillet.
Weird, other people are passionate enough to walk for causes, but what is the chance that we would share the same side of the road. We met a group of families who were walking for the abolishment of the Death penalty from Raleigh, NC to Washington, D.C. That was a refreshing coincidence. We wish you all safe travels as well.
*To all the people who take the time to read our ridiculously long blogs and then dare to maneuver the site’s option to leave a comment, THANK YOU. We walk so much lighter knowing that we have us all with us. All the prayers have, no doubt, lead us to the best people the world has to offer. It’s working and we can never use enough encouragement or prayers. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!
One more time for the cheap seats: Thank you,
theWalkers
If I were Oprah. I’d put you on my show today. I love reading your Blogs, and hope you are all doing well! You are all in my thoughts… keep on keepin’ on!
I am so proud of all of you!! You all are truly inspiring.
Becca,
I think you are amazing and am so happy to call you my “MoM” and sister. You represent our sisterhood in such a positive manner, and are a prime example of what a Gamma should be. I look up to you, and can’t wait to see you when you get back!
Love and Blessings to you all!
Dear Becca, Kate and Josh,
Good goddess but it is always great to hear what you are up to and who has been reaching out to be of service to the terrific threesome. Was delighted to hear that Kate’s dad was so kind and highly-evolved to come and join you for Dad’s Weekend. I’m not necessarily a prayerful sort, but I do think of you often, and light a candle in my heart that your travels are incredibly rewarding and ultimately reach the world at large.
Our thoughts and peaceful vibes are with you,
love,
Holly & Tom Rose
Quirky little New Smyrna Beach
I have been keeping up with your blog for some time now and thought I’d actually de-lurk.
I am a SAPA alum (and survivor) and think what you guys are doing is amazing! I am humbled by this journey you have undertaken to bring awareness to something so important and by your enormous hearts and spirits. I am eternally greatful to each of you for your willingness to make such huge sacrifices to further the cause.
You will remain in my thoughts and prayers each and every day.
My dear ones,
Four Strong Winds by Peter, Paul and Mary is playing right now and I cannot stop thinking about you.
What an experience you are having, and I hope you remember all this stuff so you can recount it a length for me/us.
I have stories for you too. I might just text them to you anyway.
Get back to us soon, but not too soon, we have a world to change.
Much love.
once again… i am in tears. I love you gals! Josh too..although this love if for you being strong women.
As always, I am thinking of you!
You make mama proud!
“Walk on, walk on
Stay safe tonight…”
-U2
Dear Kate and Becca (Her Royal Cuteness!),
Words can’t express how thoroughly I enjoyed our time together this past weekend. It was an honor to walk a small leg of this journey with you (the 96 degree temp on Saturday even seemed bearable as you described the 106 degrees the week before), and the R & R time and Father’s Day together were so much fun – thanks for treating me like a king! I am so proud of all of you (Josh too) for following your hearts when you were inspired to create and advance this mission. Being a part of it gave me a better understanding of the importance of and need for it. So walk on – I can’t wait to hear of all the amazing people and experiences that are yet to be discovered!
I love you and continue to pray for you all.
Dad (Greg) :)
Greetings Becca and Kate;
I laughed out loud when Greg AKA Eric Camden :) told me about Kate’s call and you both getting a VIP escort to your hotel last night where 40 and 1 come together!!! God sure is taking care of you in the most fun and innovative ways!!! and is smiling at you because of you speaking out and taking care of those who cannot.
Love To Both of You,
Mom
AKA Big Sandy
i am sooo proud of you three. i love reading your blog! and i’m so glad you got to have daddy for the weekend… he loved every second of it! =)
Hi! I’m the girl that picked you up in the red Ford Escape in Raleigh! Just thinking about you and wanted to see where you guys were by now…I’m guessing close to Maryland maybe? I hope you have been having a lot more fun and have been safe. I told my husband what you guys were doing and he thought that was awesome! Keep up the good work and we’ll be praying!
Love,
Summer
Thank you so very much for stopping by our Church and for eating breakfast that bunch of “old” men. It was our pleasure and may God go with you for the rest of your journey.
So proud of you a l l! Amazing dedication and perseverance! O P R A H, O P R A H!!
Love you and miss you Becca!
Keep it up,
Anita
Thanks for letting us walk with you….we’re really enjoying the trip!
Love & Prayers,
Kate’s Aunt Sue & Uncle Ter
I love you and am so glad you are all doing wonderfully :) Still thinking of you constantly…
You three are just getting better and better. Mike and I still keep you in our hearts and are happy each time a new blog comes out. Thanks for entertaining us with your writings. Maybe you can stop in D.C. and give them some advice. Becca, we know you can talk Kate into knocking on the doors and getting you in!
I love & miss you girls so much! I’m so proud of you…you make me feel like a slacker, so I suppose someday I’ll have to use you as inspiration to do something productive with my life ;) I’m in the process of writing you longer messages via facebook…so for now I’ll leave it at that. Happy early birthday Miss Kate (no having too much fun without me. It’s not allowed :))!!!!!!!!
It was so good to talk with Kate yesterday! Your visit to Mount Pleasant, SC in early June was truly inspirational and nourished my enthusiasm and love for the likes of you – smart, articulate, witty, passionate and caring (I could go on….). Take care, keep paying attention and stay in touch. The postcard was a good surprise! Ingrid sends her very best. Lynda
Hey Guys,
Just wanted to let you know Josh’s reaction to the football….
Kewllllllllllllll (big smile included). When we said we were sorry, he said, “there is always tomorrow!” You have altered our lives is ways you do not know and did not expect. The time spent with you made us rethink our priorties. We got the better end of the bargin. Be safe, hope we bump into one another again when karma makes it so. Remember our casa su casa!
Brian,Sherry,Christopher,Elizabeth,Patrick, and future NFL star Joshua :-)
We love what you 3 are doing and are very proud of our fellow Chips. FIRE UP!
Hey there friends,
Delighted to hear you are so far North, though not so glad to hear the yankees aren’t buying your mission. Who makes up this kinda stuff? Anyway, our thoughts and peaceful vibes are with you.
Love,
Holly & Tom
New Smyrna Beach, FL